Question:

I want to be a pastor, but I’m dating already. Should I break up with her or not? Please help me, Bishop.
– Edward

Answer:

Hi Edward,

When we want to serve God we must place ourselves totally at His disposal, and that requires a full-time commitment. This must be done until your calling as a pastor is confirmed. Only after this has happened should a pastor look for his suitable helper, someone with the same vision who will help him win even more souls. In your case you already have someone; you’re divided, and either you give your attention to God’s will or to your girlfriend.

The second matter to take into consideration is: Does she have the same vision as you? The same desire to do the Work of God? If the answer is yes, then she will understand when you choose to put your desire to confirm your calling in first place.

Ultimately, the decision is yours. May God guide you.