Forgiveness has four fundamental commandments; if you disobey any of them, you will face consequences. At some point in life, we will all be faced with the need to give or ask for forgiveness.

Indeed, forgiveness is a powerful tool God gave us to solve seemingly insoluble problems. It is a medicine capable of curing heart disease. Yes, it has that power. Without forgiveness, we would have no chance of salvation. Therefore, it is essential to understand and apply the four commandments of forgiveness in our lives.

1st Commandment: When you receive forgiveness, accept

If someone offers you forgiveness, accept it from the heart. Don’t keep blaming yourself or discrediting yourself for the forgiveness received. Many people do not forgive themselves because they do not believe in God’s forgiveness. But think: if God, who is infinitely superior, has forgiven you, who are you not to forgive yourself? Receive forgiveness as an act of mercy and undeserved grace.

2nd Commandment: Ask for forgiveness whenever necessary

If you make a mistake, don’t expect the other person to come and forgive you spontaneously. Take the initiative and ask for forgiveness. The result of this attitude is out of your control, but you must recognise it and act quickly. Don’t take this as an act of weakness. On the contrary, asking for forgiveness is a sign of humility and honour. Say sincerely: “I made a mistake with you, forgive me.” This demonstrates wisdom and emotional maturity.

3rd Commandment: Always forgive whoever asks you for forgiveness

Grant it if someone has the courage and humility to ask you for forgiveness. Jesus taught us: “For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.”(Matthew 6:14-15)

Don’t judge the seriousness of the mistake to decide whether to forgive. We need forgiveness for both small sins and big failures. Holding resentment only prolongs suffering. Forgiveness sets you free.

4th Commandment: Don’t come back to the subject after forgiving

True forgiveness means moving forward. As God does with our sins, we must also choose not to remember them anymore. The Bible says: “I, even I, am He who blots out your transgressions for My own sake; And I will not remember your sins.” (Isaiah 43:25)

When forgiving, don’t bring the mistake back from the past. Focus on the future and reconciliation.

Conclusion:

Disobey any of these commandments, and you will significantly complicate your life. Obey them, and you will simplify, make your life much easier, and improve your emotional and spiritual well-being. Watch the video to understand the subject better!