You may have asked yourself once again: “Why did I give too much of myself? Why did I believe, give myself, do my best… and I wasn’t reciprocated?” If this question has been constant, pay attention, because here is the answer.

When the heart takes the lead…

I know you’re not naive. You lock the house door, lock the car, even keep it in the garage, don’t go around clicking on suspicious links, and you realise when someone tries to push something on you just to hit their sales target. But when it comes to relationships and love, it seems everything you know is in an inaccessible box. The heart takes the lead, you give yourself, forget the past… and get hurt again.

This happens because of a root within you: the root of the need for attention. It is that deep need to be loved, to be important in someone’s life. Everyone needs love, but some people have never found a healthy way to receive it and end up becoming hostages to others’ love.

Two fundamental loves:

Before receiving someone’s love, you need to know two fundamental loves:

God’s love – which is the perfect standard – and healthy self-love, which has nothing to do with arrogance or vanity. Without these two references, any crumb of affection seems enough. And it’s not.

When this root of need is alive, you enter an endless cycle: you give yourself too much, you are disappointed, you feel rejected, you close yourself off… or you look for another love to find what you did not see in the ones before. But the emptiness is not in people. The emptiness is inside you, and only God can fill it.

Many people are loved by their spouse, have a solid marriage, and yet live unhappily because they miss something they can’t explain. Sometimes, it even destroys what they have, looking outside what only God can put inside.

That’s why I’ve been insisting: you need to treat your roots. Bad roots produce bad fruits, even when you don’t want to. And the only way to change the fruits is to cut the root.

That’s what we’re doing in Love Therapy.

So, if you want to solve this definitively, I leave the invitation:

This Thursday, at 8 pm, come and participate in the Love Therapy.

In the Temple of Solomon, at Celso Garcia, 605, Brás – São Paulo. If you are in another city, visit the Love Therapy website to find the nearest address.

Finally, watch the whole message in the video, and if it helped you, share it with others.

https://www.universal.org/renato-cardoso/post/me-entrego-demais-e-sofro-onde-estou-errando/