This student’s question illustrates the situation of many people who live by letting the other decide everything regarding the relationship.

For two years, she has been “together” with a man. But over time, they met, talked and “stayed together”. After a week, he decided he wanted to live with her. And she accepted. Everything went well in the first six months until the first separation. After two days apart, they talked, got back together, and spent another year together. She reports that in this period of one year, everything was beautiful until they separated again. After a week apart, they got back together.

This past week, the man said he wanted to separate because he no longer liked her and that the relationship was bringing him more responsibility, and he did not know how to deal with it. They keep in touch, and she says that despite everything, he respects her. Her question is: ‘what should I do’?

Check out the answer in the video above.