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Agree to disagree

Have you ever had to “agree to disagree” with someone? If you have, you know it’s a pain. I do. It’s not easy.


But then, when it happens, it’s a reminder that:
  • You’re different from that other human being. Not better. Not worse. Just different.
  • The truth may yet come to the surface, and show which of you is wrong — if not both of you. So, just wait.
  • The disagreement may never be settled, because each of you holds his own view to be the only right and true one — and is not prepared to listen to the other. Hardheadedness and pride abound.
  • You have to learn to live with each other in spite of not agreeing on everything.
  • Maybe the issue is not that important after all.
Agree to disagree is sometimes God’s way of teaching us patience and relationship skills. 

I’m telling you, God is a hard teacher!