Every day we receive desperate requests asking for help on how to get the love and attention of their partner back. It’s usually women asking for help, but sometimes even men. The stories are quite similar. The relationship has been turbulent, many mistakes have been made by both parties, but one has hardened their heart and the other is begging for attention.

There’s nothing sadder than seeing a man or woman humiliating themselves, and begging for a bit of love and attention from their partner. Of course, the person doesn’t perceive this. Only those looking from the outside see the tears, scenes of jealousy, fights, dramas, aggressiveness, and how one subjects themselves to situations and absurd behavior – all for a morsel of “love.”

The question is always the same: “How can I attract my husband/wife/girlfriend/boyfriend, and get them back to me?

The answer can be understood in the meaning of the word “attract.” The dictionary defines it as: “to draw to you; enchant; seduce; conquer the admiration.” Note that the idea is not to run after what you want, chase, implore, fight for attention. On the contrary, to attract is when things or people are drawn to you because they see something that interests them.

In marketing we learn that if we want someone to buy our product, we must make it desirable. Shoving the product down the persons throat doesn’t work. He may even swallow it and buy it, but he’ll feel resentful on how much you insisted. That’s why we hate calls from telemarketers, as well as those sales people who want us to buy everything in the store when we just came in for a pair of socks. This kind of marketing may work briefly, but it’s doomed to failure.

It’s no different in relationships. It’s like when you go after a good product, you pay any price and even face the line; when the person is desirable, we are the ones who go after them. They don’t need to beg for our attention.

Those who beg for people’s attention don’t know what their worth.

If you really want to attract your partner, stop going after him/her. Then begin to invest in your value. Become a desirable person. Love yourself first. Don’t condition your happiness to that persons attention. Be happy without them. (Have you noticed how we’re attracted to happy people?)

That’s the best strategy to attract the person you love.

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