“If you really loved me…” “How can you be so selfish?” “This is what I get in exchange for everything I’ve done for you…”
Who can stand such accusations?
If you don’t bring your relationship to the level of reason, you’ll continue being a victim (or a villain) of emotional blackmail.
Emotions are the wrong tool to deal with relationship problems. Bring your relationship to the level of reason: deal with the facts, understand what the real issue is, and deliberate on ideas and solutions.
Emotional blackmail only thrives in relationships led by emotional people.
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